The Signs That Your Ex Wants You Back!

Sometimes it's difficult to pinpoint all the things that led to a break-up. Of course there are the obvious reasons, such as one partner cheating or abusing alcohol or drugs. But there are times when one will break up with another, leaving the dumped person unsure what happened. The reasons behind the break-up can be related to the dumper feeling as though the dumpee took the relationship for granted or all too often an argument was had and either party said things they wish they could now take back. We are human and we say things in anger, when we aren't thinking. The problem is that words have a lasting impression.

Whatever the reason for the break-up, we want to see signs that our ex has left the door open for us. We want to know that the damage is reparable. Here are some things you can do to see if reconciliation is on your ex's mind and whether your ex boyfriend or girlfriend wants you back.

First, I suggest you take a step back. Even if only temporarily, implement the no contact rule. It may seem harsh, especially after having spent so long with your partner. But you both need clarity and space. You can't have this if you're still hanging around, confusing things with emotions. Next step is to think about the reasons your ex dumped you. Be honest with yourself. This is the most difficult and yet most important step to reconciliation, if assuming reconciliation is possible.

Have you identified the issues that likely led to your relationship's demise? Good, now reconnect with the friends that you likely ignored when you were half of 'we' and ask them to confirm that these are likely the cause of the break-up. Most will be honest with you.

Your next move is to work on these steps. Figure out a way that you won't take these issues into your next relationship, whether it's with your ex or another person. While you are doing this, it's important to thwart your ex's attempts at communication. In order to be certain that your ex really wants you back and isn't just lonely for your touch, you need to continue taking a step back. You'll do neither of yourselves any good by jumping back in without resolving these things.

Let a little more time pass and then call your ex. If your ex is still there after this cooling off period and is willing to hear you talk about the part you played in the relationship's end, then maybe your ex boyfriend or girlfriend really did want you back. The rest, my friend, is up to you. Take things slowly at first and always be mindful of who this person is to you and this relationship will be better than the last.

It's still quite possible to get your ex back regardless of whether they eloped with someone else or not. Of course, you have to know how to do it effectively. If you have been searching for ove poems for an ex girlfriend, you've not been going about it the right way!